Time to Move On…
Terrica • November 4th, 2009 • Filed under Company News
It is with a sad, but happy heart that I inform you that we have closed a chapter on a former life. I believe in fostering creativity and support in this industry, and in spite of recent events—I always will. It was truly with a giving spirit that I attempted to appeal to a person’s better judgment, since they had just began their business two days prior to my contact and ask that they refrain from using the name I had spent so much time cultivating and using for years. Instead of replying to my request, they filed for a trademark a day before my application made it into the system. After building the brand that you have come to know and love, we spent the greater part of this past year embroiled in a trademark battle in an attempt to protect what we have.
This week, I received notice that the planner/designer won the trademark and we will no longer use the name that has come mean everything fabulous and luxurious in weddings.
But you know what?
I’m fine with that.
While we’ve poured our blood, sweat and vodka into the name, it’s a mere piece of what our brand is. What is everlasting and true is our commitment to providing excellent client service to those who will work alongside us, both vendors and clients. While I have decided not to pursue this any longer within the courts, I am completely and undeniably committed to pursuing the creation of outstanding events, supporting stellar professionals in this industry and keeping you in the know on everything fabulous.
Don’t cry for me, Argentina….
Alas, luxelings, when one martini is knocked over, another one is being shaken and ready to be poured. This is a minor inconvenience, not a setback, In fact, it seems like the perfect opportunity to reveal some of the awesome things we have in store under our new name, Cocktails & Details:
* Be on the look out for our upcoming collaborations with some of the world’s best spirits companies! I am so excited to bring you something special that you’ll possibly be able to buy in a store near you!
* We will be collaborating with Houston’s hot destination wedding specialist, Precious Nuptials & Destinations to provide on-location coordination services for destination weddings in Mexico and the Caribbean. Stay Tuned!
* Due to demand, we have launched Details for a Day—our division that will solely handle the month of coordination and elopements for couples having weddings in Savannah, St. Simons, Jekyll Island and Jacksonville.
* …and so much more!
I hope you are just as excited about some of the new things we have in store! I want you to keep in touch, so here are some updates:
* If you linked to us previously, please make a point to change the former URL to our new one: www.cocktailsdetails.com and www.cocktailsdetailsblog.com.
* The new feed for our blog has changed as well— please subscribe to stay up-to-date with the fabulousness
* If you follow us on Twitter, be sure to send your @ replies or DMs to the new name CocktailTerrica (note, it is the same account, so if you were already following me, you still are!) Don’t forget to follow Kim, too!
* If you were a fan of our previous fan page, it is now closed. Come by and show your support by becoming a fan on Facebook!
Thank you so much for your continued support and I look forward to creating bigger and better things with you, no matter what our name is.
But remember, it’s Cocktails & Details 
Thank you so much, Eliana, Jennifer, Saundra, Liene, Precious, Mattie & Kim for your unwavering support, love and laughter. I owe you more than I could pay and will adore you longer than I will live. You are all talented, intelligent and beautiful people and I am gracious to have you in my brain trust. Your inspiration and drive is not lost at any second of the day…this one’s for you.
November 4th, 2009 at 10:48 AM
This happened for a reason and I am so excited that I cannot wait for the FABness to begin.
November 4th, 2009 at 10:48 AM
I’m so sorry for the battle you’ve been going through this past year, Terrica. While Fabuluxe will be greatly missed, I know that Cocktails & Details will continue to provide all the fabulousness, quality, and INTEGRITY that we have come to known and love. Wishing Cocktails & Details all the best!
November 4th, 2009 at 10:51 AM
Like a Phoenix from the ashes you already are rising again! This is not the last we have seen of you and I can’t wait to see why lemonade you make from these lemons! Today Cocktails and Details (the name) is over for me. For there was truly only one!
November 4th, 2009 at 10:54 AM
Being fabulous is not just in the name. It is in who you are. It is in your character. It is in your spirit. It has and always will be YOU! Your brand will continue to soar because you are a forward thinker (look what you’ve rolled out already!) and a giver. When your brand is fabulous the title on the letterhead matters not.
Much love to ya, babe!
November 4th, 2009 at 10:54 AM
I have no words.
Know that this chapter was forced to close to allow for something so much more amazing to come into your life. Lord knows that you deserve it!
Love & Soul Always, Kay
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November 4th, 2009 at 11:05 AM
I am going through the same thing. This is a blessing. There are bigger and better things in store for you. I can not wait to see all of the fabulous things you have in store.
November 4th, 2009 at 11:08 AM
Oh goodness – You know, I went through a similar thing about a year ago. What I realized was that it is not about the name. See: http://www.abcddesign.com/archives/2008/12/02/abcd-designs-ceci-nest-pas-une-tasse/
The behavior of the other party, the lawyers fees and the negative energy is just not worth it. It zaps your creative energy and ability to run a smart and efficient business.
This “jerk” that you were fighting has simply forced you into clarity. Clarity is a very good thing, indeed. This new energy will take you on to bigger and brighter things.
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November 4th, 2009 at 11:35 AM
A butterfly doesn’t get to fly until it has built up strength fighting to get out of the cocoon. You were once a cayepillar and now this is your butterfly moment to start over as a beautiful new creation! No matter what, you’ll always be fabulous!
November 4th, 2009 at 11:38 AM
Whew! I thought you were closing doors for good! As icky as this situation was, YOU are the fabulous, not the name. Leave it behind and shake it off, sister!
Amber of Amber Events´s last blog ..A Photographer’s Perspective: Picotte Photography
November 4th, 2009 at 11:47 AM
I went through this too and it was heart-wrenching at first. So happy for you in this new chapter! I know this is a blessing in disguise for you and I can’t wait to see where it takes you. Many prayers and big hugs!! xoxo
November 4th, 2009 at 11:49 AM
Tomorrow never dies… Just look at all the wonderful things transitioning into your tomorrow. As Andria said, I love your natural ability to think, react, build and work into tomorrow. Swiping a business name won’t bring success. You, my dear, are the core of everything fabulous! I’m ready to toast over Cocktails & Details!!
November 4th, 2009 at 12:14 PM
Dearest Terrica–
You cannot truly own a name if you do not embody it. Everyone knows an original when they see it. Cheap imitations are always exposed. I know we’ll talk later. . .over cocktails.
November 4th, 2009 at 12:33 PM
What other name…??? !!!??
LONG LIVE COCKTAILS & DETAILS!!!
Rock this out as you have all of your other endeavors both personally and professionally-
November 4th, 2009 at 12:35 PM
Terrica,
I applaud you for being the bigger person here, not an easy thing to do. Remember that YOU are what created YOUR brand and style and no one can ever ever replace it or do it the same way, no matter how much they try.
I wish you many big successes as Cocktails & Details …
Best,
Lisa
November 4th, 2009 at 12:38 PM
Oh that’s so frustrating! And what a lowball thing for them to do. But… you are your brand and you will soar with this new name! I’m so excited for all the new plans you listed! This will be just a minor pebble in the road of your success.
November 4th, 2009 at 12:47 PM
Terrica! From one LUXE Lady to another…I applaud you in every way. Your vision, your tenacity, your creativity, your support – the list goes on for miles – and since you already know what they say about a rose…
I hate that you’ve been bogged down by this fight. It’s unbelievable and so unfortunate. My team and I deal daily with copyright and trademark infringement issues and it is so draining. But I wanted to share what I had to learn about myself through the process…
People can steal your ideas, but they can’t take away your imagination. That’s what keeps me going. AND – That’s why they can take your name, but they can never be you. YOU ARE AMAZING!!!
Sugarluxe Art´s last blog ..Over the Rainbow: Dreams You Dare to Dream Really Do Come True
November 4th, 2009 at 12:52 PM
Rock it girl – this is where you were meant to be. I can’t wait to see what delicious details you have to share, and I love the new name! xoxo
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November 4th, 2009 at 1:01 PM
Terrica, You are a rockstar no matter what name you embody. Let your haters be your motivators. I can’t wait to see the great things to come in the future for Cocktails & Details. Wishing you continued success and sending you love!!!!!!
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November 4th, 2009 at 1:21 PM
Ms. Terrica,
Know this: And this too shall pass. Where one door closes, several others shall be open. What God has blessed no one can curse. There are so many things I wish to say in your defense, but I can only state that this person may in fact be “Occupying” what God had for you initially, illegally (from a spiritual aspect). With that being the case, it will not last.
Be encouraged. You have so much support from all of us. Your Brand can only Expand and Excel And it will! So On with the Evolution!!!
Grace & Peace
November 4th, 2009 at 1:27 PM
Terrica, I just want you to know that your blog was the FIRST wedding planner blog I ever started reading way back I can’t even remember how long ago. You will always be the original, and I am sure you will prosper and excel under your new brand.
Emee
Emee´s last blog ..{From the archives} A downtown Portland wedding at the World Trade Center: Celebrating Stacy & Lou
November 4th, 2009 at 2:24 PM
Terrica, in such a difficult and painful situation you are showing what true grace, creativity and intelligence look like. Go on with your bad self! Sending you wishes for loads of luck and fabulousness in your new endeavor! xoxo
November 4th, 2009 at 2:51 PM
I’m trully sorry to hear about this, but because you’re handling this painful situation with such crace and intelligence, god will bring YOU out on top and your new name will be even better and more powerful than you could have ever imagine. Here’s to your new endeavor.
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November 4th, 2009 at 3:21 PM
Fabuluxe hot because you made it !! The imposter will continue to be that: AN IMPOSTER!
Long live Cocktails & Details! Look ahead and not back. This was only a stumbling block on the road to bigger and better things. If anything, you’ve learned a few lessons and have become wiser in the process.
November 4th, 2009 at 3:35 PM
I’m sorry to hear about your ongoing battle, but you and your business are so much more than a name. Everything happens for a reason and because you have chosen to take the high road you will be rewarded ten-fold. Like Emee your was one of the first blogs I started to follow, and I can always count on your wit and humor to bring a comical touch to the industry.
November 4th, 2009 at 4:14 PM
I’m sorry to hear about this, and just yesterday I was wondering why I hadn’ seen your name on twitter recently. You did a fabulous job building it up, and no doubt, I know you will do it again (and probably big than before). Sending you positive vibes and best wishes as you move on. As you can see, your fans, are all behind you!
November 4th, 2009 at 7:41 PM
Oh Terrica… I’m so sorry to hear about this. I think you have a fabulous attitude about it all and are so so much more than a name. This is just the beginning of something new and incredible and no one can ever be you. Even if they try to trade mark it! Much love to you sweet girl and may you continue to grow and flourish under this new and oh so saucy new name.
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November 4th, 2009 at 7:50 PM
Terrica, I am so proud to be a member of your team! It’s so great to see all this love and support for you, it truly is well deserved and I am beyond excited for things to come. A name is a name but attitude is everything. You are fabulous!
November 4th, 2009 at 9:10 PM
Your fabuluxe and can’t nobody take that away from you girl! I’m proud of you and excited for your new chapter.
November 4th, 2009 at 10:17 PM
Terrica – Wow what an ordeal you have been through! No surprise you have held your head high and taken the {very} high road. The ‘imitator’ has to live with herself and know what she has done. We ALL know what the truth is and that is what is important. None of us are defined by a name – we define ourselves and you are the definition of class and grace and all that is truly fabulous. Can’t wait to see what the future holds for you – there is no question it is VERY bright!
Cheers!
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November 4th, 2009 at 11:33 PM
When life singe your eyebrows, draw them back on!
This is a blip in your universe. Your friends, admirers, clients, family and many industry recognitions isn’t because of a company name…it’s because of YOU!
Soar, my friend…
November 5th, 2009 at 12:36 AM
Please rest assured that there is no blessing in store for someone who steals, cheats, or attempts to lay claim to something that never was, nor will ever truly be there’s. You have been and are blessed abundantly and there are even more blessings coming your way. Keep evolving!!!
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November 5th, 2009 at 11:42 AM
No worries – cream always rises to the top!
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November 5th, 2009 at 12:48 PM
Terrica, I am truly sorry to see that someone else took you through this for the past year. But if you are true to form, I know that this will be a mere memory as you go on to make your business as fabulous as it can be! Many blessings to you and your future endeavors.
Your Chicago fan!
November 5th, 2009 at 12:55 PM
Can you feel the love and support?? I know that recently someone who is ‘young’ in the industry was going on/on and I said to her that the true PROFESSIONALS in this industry are kind, giving, supportive and willing to share. There are others that will suck you dry and step over you to get what they perceive as the golden ring. In the end, the people that hold true, are good, shake off the nonsense and yes rise, like the phoenix win. I have to believe that, even when I have those ‘why me’ moments.
You my dear have proven that you are a true class act and I raise several glasses of Champagne to you, your brand (which is more than your name) and your continued success.
Lisa´s last blog ..Steals, deals and events – November 5-14, 2009
November 5th, 2009 at 8:36 PM
Girl, I haven’t met you yet, but I can’t wait! REading your post I can tell how much struggle this little drama has caused you but it’s certainly for a reason. You, Terrica, are far stronger from any business name or trademark. This girl doesn’t know who she’s messing with. Here’s to a fabulous 2010!! We’re all in your corner!
November 5th, 2009 at 10:43 PM
Terrica, I am truly sad to hear about this craziness! I know how meticulous you’ve been about all of details and branding of your company. I know you mean it when you say you’re fine with it. You have been an inspiration to me over the years and I know you will continue to inspire others and produce beautiful events. Keep doing what you do! Take care!
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November 6th, 2009 at 1:30 AM
listen….YOU are YOU! no one can be you…NO ONE…it’s just a name…so let her have it!! so excited for your new chapter!!! xoxo
November 6th, 2009 at 11:13 AM
Terrica,
You rock. That is all.
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November 6th, 2009 at 11:16 AM
i am LOVIN’ the new leaf! You rock.
November 6th, 2009 at 3:07 PM
Oh Terrica!!
I’m so sorry that you had to go through all of this- Just remember: “That which we call a Fabuluxe/ By any other name would taste as sweet.”
or….”Two tears in a bucket, _______________” YOU know the rest!!
Bizous, rock star!!
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November 6th, 2009 at 3:13 PM
I love the new name! So sorry about all the drama, but excited to see where things go this next year! Thanks for the inspiration
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November 6th, 2009 at 3:58 PM
Terrica, as someone pretty new to the wedding blogosphere you’ve been a big inspiration to me so I’m sorry to hear about all this foolishness! But as you can see you have a lot of people in your corner so no matter what the name you will continue to rise to the top.
P.S.- I’ve always loved that your blog was called Cocktails & Details anyway because it has such a cute ring to it! Can’t wait to see what 2010 holds for you & your team!
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November 6th, 2009 at 8:15 PM
Hello Terrica, I’m sadden to hear what you’re going through and I wanted you to know through this you will shine. Continue on your path & all will be fine. I wish you much continued success. Be blessed. Veronique
November 6th, 2009 at 11:16 PM
Terrica,
People like you are rare. Often imitated but will never be duplicated. Your blessings come from God and God alon, no matter what anyone says. Not from a name, a position or a title…and certainly not from other people. You are the essence of fabulosity. Shaken…not stirred, baby! As they say, it’s all in the “details”.
CHEERS!
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November 6th, 2009 at 11:45 PM
Wow, I’m so sorry this happened but from all the comments you’ve received, it looks like you’ve got some big supporters. You are an inspiration and I know you’ll continue to keep doing what you do best!
November 6th, 2009 at 11:58 PM
Wow Terrica, I am so sorry you had to go through that ordeal. Your grace and integrity during this tough time is admirable and you surely will come out on top. Looking forward to seeing what lies ahead for you!
November 7th, 2009 at 3:12 AM
Terrica, you will always be FABULUXE to those who know you virtually and in reality. I pray the best for Cocktails and Details and can’t wait to see all the greatness that lies within.
You are truly an inspiration and I will support you no matter what your company’s name is. Keep rocking it!
November 7th, 2009 at 8:40 AM
Terricca,
there is a african proverb that says what you don’t work for you can’t keep. I am firm believer that things happen for a reason. Don’t be angry or bitter, the Lord is preparing you for something bigger and you have to let go of old things in your hand in order to receive the new things He has in store for you. Ok enough of the sermon- I look forward to seeing much bigger things cocktails and details.
November 7th, 2009 at 8:42 AM
Terricca,
there is a african proverb that says what you don’t work for you can’t keep. I am firm believer that things happen for a reason. Don’t be angry or bitter, the Lord is preparing you for something bigger and you have to let go of old things in your hand in order to receive the new things He has in store for you. Ok enough of the sermon- I look forward to seeing much bigger things from your company.
November 7th, 2009 at 10:41 AM
Terrica,
I am sorry to hear about your trademark battle. I have been following your blog for the past year and I have truly enjoyed your style and every single post. I agree with the other comments to this post, things happen for a reason and this situation that you have gone through only means that there is something bigger out there for you waiting to happen. I am excited about Cocktails and Details and can’t wait to see what FAB you have up your sleeve. Just know that “we” planner who have decided to play “nice” love you and support you all the way.
November 7th, 2009 at 1:00 PM
Terricca, I just found you through Be Inspired and I was appauled to read about what happened to you. Unfortunately, your fight will lead us all to protect what is ours. In the words of Alicia Keys, you are a superwoman! Show them that even when they THOUGHT they could make you a mess your put that vest with that S on your chest and handled it! You will soar even higher because you are a SUPERWOMAN! You now have a fan for life!
November 8th, 2009 at 1:38 AM
Terrica
I was upset when I read this blog post, but she only has the name everything that you and your team do is FABULOUS! so just keep the same drive and creativity and you will continue to have success. Look forward to what you will do in the future I am a huge fan!
November 8th, 2009 at 5:19 PM
I am so behind. Cant believe I am just finding out about this. Everything happens for a reason. You are a great person and you have a great attitude. You will continue to wow and inspire your clients and colleagues. You will always be FABULOUS!! Something even bigger and better is heading your way.
November 11th, 2009 at 12:44 PM
Wow, that must have been difficult to deal with but you have an amazing attitude. I don’t doubt that you’ll be better than ever!
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November 11th, 2009 at 12:45 PM
Wow, that must have been difficult to deal with but you have an amazing attitude. I don’t doubt that you’ll be better than ever!
November 19th, 2009 at 12:17 AM
Hi Terrica:
I have no words. I don’t think is fair that you had to change everything.
I wrote you an email (I hope that was your email) but if not, write me … I would like to talk to you.
Hope you the best with your new fabulous name ;o)
November 20th, 2009 at 12:49 PM
Wow that’s totally a bummer and worth every drop of vodka consumed. Regardless of the name, it doesn’t change the fact that you’re still one of the coolest wedding peeps in the industry!
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December 2nd, 2009 at 12:06 AM
Love your attitude. Sorry to hear about the drama. Things happen for a reason. A good reason. You will always be the true Fabuluxe. The other is an imposter and always will be no matter what the paperwork says. You’re a clever, class act and your attitude is fab. My best to you Mz Cocktails & Details!